Staff Reporter
- Conference tackles health and sexual satisfaction: The event at Malmesbury Prison focused on men’s health, well-being, and overcoming the discomfort of discussing sexual satisfation.
- Participants reflect on personal impact: Afrika Tshona from Boland TVET College found the discussions valuable, enhancing his understanding of both personal and professional challenges.
- Event addresses cultural stigma: The conference highlighted the cultural barriers that prevent open dialogue about sexual satisfaction and mental health.
Broader issues covered: The conference also included sessions on nutrition, exercise, and financial planning, receiving commendation for its comprehensive approach.
Men’s health, well-being, and the challenges surrounding open discussions about sexual satisfaction were central topics at the men’s conference hosted by West Coast TVET College at Malmesbury Prison on Friday 19 July.
The event aimed to address these often-overlooked issues, fostering a more open dialogue among men and offering valuable insights into managing both personal and professional challenges.
Afrika Tshona, campus manager at Caledon Campus under Boland TVET College, was among those in attendance.
Reflecting on the experience, Tshona found the discussions particularly enlightening.
“The conference tackled many issues that men’s society tends to overlook,” said Tshona.
“I now feel better prepared for my role both as a manager and within my family,” he said.
He noted that the event’s focus on mental health would significantly enhance his capacity to support both his staff and family.
A key focus of the conference was the discomfort many men experience when discussing sexual satisfaction.
Tshona stated, “We often view sex as primarily about fulfilling our own desires, forgetting that our partners also seek pleasure and satisfaction.”
He also acknowledged the cultural stigma that discourages men from seeking help, adding, “I used to think that visiting a men’s clinic was a sign of weakness. Our culture has historically stifled open dialogue, contributing to broader issues like gender violence.”
The conference also addressed crucial topics such as nutrition and exercise.
Christo van Rensburg, deputy director at Malmesbury Prison, commended the event for its empowering and informative content.
“This was the first time men could openly discuss matters that are important to them,” van Rensburg said.
“It’s crucial for us to bring these lessons back to our families and workplaces,” he said.
Basil Gantries, the prison’s head of finance and supply chain, valued the conference’s focus on mental wellness and financial planning.
“The speakers addressed our core concerns, highlighting the importance of mental health and informed financial choices,” said Gantries.
“We often neglect our mental well-being in an effort to appear tough, but the conference reminded us of our humanity and the need for ongoing self-reflection.”